Okay, so you’re staring at your phone waiting for a text from your ex. “Will he call me?”
You may have even googled at 2 am for ways to get your ex to call you back (no judgment—we’ve all been there). You must sometimes wonder, can occult sciences like tarot give me answers?
Let’s take a realistic look at tarot for reconciliation can tarot cards really answer whether you will reunite with your ex?
Let’s cut through the mystical haze and be real about it.
Spoiler Alert: Tarot Is Not a Love Witchcraft Hotline
If you are hoping for the cards to say something like, “YES, THEY’RE COMING BACK. WITH A BOUQUET. AND AN APOLOGY!” – Unfortunately, tarot doesn’t work that way. (Sorry to ruin your rom-com hope or fantasy.)
Here are some things tarot can do:
✅ Show you the current dynamic between the two of you.
✅ Identify what might be stopping reconciliation (pride? bad timing? that awful fight over pineapple on pizza?).
✅ Assure you that it may be time to move on (ouch, but sometimes you just need to.)
The cards might lean
More positive (the Two of Cups? Cute could mean feelings are still there. or
More negative (The Tower?). Yikes, time to steer clear. The Hermit? Maybe your ex is in an “I need some space to find myself” place.
The Cold Hard Truth: Your Ex’s Decision is Not Within Tarot’s Control
So, you pull the Knight of Cups—a promising card? Maybe.
But unless your ex suddenly develops telepathy and a grand gesture notion for a return to your life, the cards are not able to make it happen.
Real reconciliation requires
✔ 2 willing people (talking about tarot doesn’t count as willing).
✔ Actual conversation (pointing my phone at their social media isn’t a conversation).
✔ Growth (if nothing has changed, what is the change in outcome?).
When Tarot Actually Helps:
Clarity Not False Hope—Instead of fixating on “Do they miss me?” tarot can help you step back and see the bigger picture (for example, “They are emotionally unavailable; stop waiting”).
Timing Tips—The Star card: Be patient with this situation. The Chariot = time to take action (if you’re willing).
Putting You in Check—If you keep drawing the Eight of Cups (walking away card) and continue to ignore it, the universe is giving you side-eye.
Red Flags to Take Notice Of
🚩 Readers who tell you “I KNOW” you and your ex will reconcile—unless they have done a brain hack on your ex, you are being bamboozled
🚩 You have had 17 readings this week—you are fully in avoidance at this point now. Put the deck down
🚩 You only take “positive” cards— Denying the existence of the Three of Swords (the heartbreak card) is not going to change the reality
Final Verdict: Should you trust Tarot for reconciliation?
The tarot or psychic reader is like an honest friend that is not going to give you a rosy reading, but one that can provide you with a different perspective.
Whether that will lead to reconciliation will depend on what your free will is and what your actions are in the real world, and not just what the cards say.
So why not give it a go and do a reading? Then check in and ask yourself this question: “Am I using this for clarity, or am I simply doing this as a way to justify my hope?”
And as for if the cards say it is over? Then maybe it’s time you shuffled that deck and your dating life. 😉
Have you ever pulled a card that totally called you out? Share your experience below! 🔮✨
